"WOW! You look gorgeous!,"says Anna complimenting her bff wearing a wedding gown. A sincere compliment,isn't it? But, what her bff doesn't know is that at the back of Anna's mind, she doesn't really like the offwhite-colored, ruffled serpentina gown that she's wearing.
It is normal. It is normal to everyone that we wouldn't be pleased with everyone and everything. It is okay to be tactful with what we are saying and especially on giving comments.It is the best way to avoid hurting other people's feelings and be judged as ill-mannered.
But, in this world, there are not a few people who doesn't know anything but to find flaws and negative traits on others. With this type of personality, a person like this thinks that he is the best and most perfect person in the whole wide world but in reality, he feels so imperfect but hates to admit it.
How to deal with them? Better ignore what they're saying or totally ignore them. It's the best we could do to avoid being one of their kind. If you are already one of them,better have a personality check and go to counseling.
Always remember that there is no perfect person in this world. It is written in the Holy Bible that there is no righteous person. So, if we couldn't be perfect ourselves, why do we have to judge other people's imperfections?
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